“First Gay Date: 3 Ways to Land a Second” for EliteSingles.com

There will always be a lot of emotions on a first gay date. The trick is to master these feelings so that you make it to date number two and beyond. On a first date, you’re likely feeling a mixture of excitement and nerves. However, having a positive attitude can make a real difference in conquering any worries you might have.

As an experienced matchmaker, I’m familiar with the guidelines you should follow if you want to make it past your first date. Here are my top three tips to keep in mind.

Guidelines for Your First Gay Date

Be Proactive and Specific 

When it comes to dating, it helps if you’re direct. Whenever I was interested in someone I wouldn’t shy away from asking them out, telling them how I felt, or proposing fun date ideas. Being specific about the place and the time you’d like to meet them can be helpful. If you’re vague, you risk coming across as uninterested. For example, saying something like “I might be free this weekend but I don’t know my schedule,” won’t show your gay crush that you like them.

These days people have endless distractions at their fingertips. Everyone is competing for everyone else’s time. That’s why proposing your invite confidently is important. Don’t worry about coming across as too keen, just put yourself out there!

I was usually complemented regarding how forthright I was. It didn’t matter what I suggested, what mattered was that I took the offer seriously. If you reinstate your offer a few times and your crush doesn’t volley back something concrete, don’t worry. Instead, move forward with another connection. Remember, if something is important to someone then they’ll make time for it.

Think Outside of the Box

If you’re feeling nervous about your first gay date, keep things casual. Why not go for a happy hour drink or a cup of coffee at a café? Alternatively, if you feel like your communication has been flowing effortlessly, organize something memorable.

If it were me, I’d try to impress the guy. I’d want him to tell his friends about the experience and rave about how I was “a breath of fresh air.“ Putting in the extra effort will make the date more enjoyable for both of you. If you’re not sure how to tailor the date to your crush, think about his likes and dislikes. After all, taking an interest in your man’s passions is important when you’re starting a new relationship.

Don’t worry if you don’t know these immediately, simply check out his dating profile to see what he’s into.

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